time passes by

I know people make fun of me as being the girl who likes to have boyfrens who are about to go NS. Dunno ah but i guess i attract these kinda guys in this category ah. haha... I find it humourous but it's a huge test ah. It makes me a more independent person. Had an interesting with convo last nite. No matter what you guys think, it's tough to be an NS girlfren. Firstly, without u asking for it, u haf to miss him the first 2 weeks after sending him to dreaded Tekong. Then the only precious time u can talk to him to ur heart's content is from 930 to 1030 before their lights out. Then u haf to wait for their first book out then u will haf a "bangla" for a bf for a few weeks (sorry buncit if u are offended). But baby commented that u tend to sayang them more after they go into NS. And it's so true, cos you only get 48hrs or less with them before they book in again. And even if u talk on the phone, u've only got an hr.... u both wanna cramp as much info to each other before lights out. It's somewhat romantic in a menyeksakan diri way (if there's such a word). So you only have time to treat each other with love and care without wasting time on fighting. All the more you should cut down on the fights. And appreciate the fact that as much as your bf wants to spend time with you, he has a life besides you and the only time he can catch up with it is when he cuts spending time with u and use his book out time to do whatever he needs to. So it teaches you not to be selfish and to think of sharing and being in considerate relationship of giving and taking. I thank adib for this opportunity of maturing myself (although i dun think he'll agree with me) but it's an experience every Singaporean girl must go through ah! haha.... I wanna catch up with az and nat! I miss them terribly... then my bandusa girls... haiyo.... I think i'm sick cos i miss you guys lor... haiz... ok lah... enuff rambling... nite!